Do guys really listen?

I really want and need to know if guys even listen when a girl talks to them. I am steamed and I don't see that changing soon. It seems to me that they never mature they will forever be fags and sexually driven by the prettiest girl in the room. Whoever said chilvary is dead wasn't lying. While in California I spent plenty of time with the male species aged 19 to 35 and even when they were sober they were still pig headed. My posed question is due to the fact that after much conversing with one of my male friends, he still talks about things that I told him I found innapropriate. He's 26 years old, why would he think I have feelings for him, and why would he tell me he has feelings for me a 19 year old - hmmmmm. I feel like he gets all of his lines out of a book because they are freaking cheesy and rediculous. I don't know how many times I have told him that things will never work out because WE BELIEVE IN DIFFERENT THINGS - I love the guy to death as a FRIEND it will never be more because we have polar oposite beliefs and focus' in life. My life is centered around Jesus Christ. His isn't. I made myself a promice a long time ago that I would never date a non-believer, have sex before marriage, live with a boyfriend before marriage. Im not about to even consider compromising that and dropping it for some guy. Im not that type of girl that is going to be whatever the guy wants me to be Hell No Fuck that -pardon my french - He better like me in sweats because that's the garb im generally found in that and baggy blue jeans. I like the lyrics to this song its called Not The One by ZoeGirl

Sick of all the games
This story's getting old
It's time for a change
I'm gonna take controlI
'm not an object or possession
You played with the wrong girl
And you don't own me anymore

The game of love is overrated
It's not real, I'm tired of playing

You can try to pull me in with promises
You don't intend to keep
You can try to put the pressure on
But baby, I'm not that naive
You can try to break me, try to hurt me
Till the walls fall all around me
But you can never make me feel unloved
'Cause you're not the one

I am stronger than you know
I'm smarter than you think
Not made of stone
But I stand on my own feet
I'm not your mother or your keeper
I'm not your average girl
'Cause I know what I'm living for

You can try to pull me in with promises
You don't intend to keep
You can try to put the pressure on
But baby, I'm not that naive
You can try to break me, try to hurt me
Till the sky falls all around me
But you can never make me feel unloved
'Cause you're not the one

You can try to break me, try to hurt me
Till the sky falls all around me
Now I know what I'm living for
You can try to break me, try to hurt me
Till the sky falls all around me
You're not the one, you're not the one

Now not all guys are like this I know quite a few good one who are real keepers but most of them are taken haha so congrats to all you lucky girls who have landed a real man and to all you real men - thank you for treating us girls not like a possession or some number but as a human with feelings and needs. All my love ~ Rachel